I’ve been reading a lot of different stuff about coaching recently. It’s good to see the different points of view, I learn something from each of them. But in the end, sometimes I wonder if we are taking something that is already very tough and making it more complicated than it need be.
I read endless debates about who we should spend our time with, A’s, B’s, or C’s. Everyone has a different view. Some people even try to measure the optimal time spent coaching each person each week—it’s 15.23675899 minutes per person per week–OK I made that up, but you can find similar statistics in various posts.
There are lots of discussions about coaching approaches–directive, non-directive, and so forth. Actually, I think these are very important discussions because they focus on maximizing the impact of each coaching discussion. But some of them take the approach too far and are too formulaic, “use these words, with this emphasis, at this...





